Saturday, October 2, 2010

Moving On... Out

Vintage Skeleton Key Pin Set from Pretty in Peace


My heart temporarily sank when I listened to her message. I had gotten a call back from the woman who would be informing me of the panel's decision of whether or not to induct us into the transitional family. She had said the decision reached was a "yes and no". Huh? What the hell does that mean? Part of me deciphered that as they really really wanted to help us, BUT, for some reason or another we didn't meet the requirements. I've always been met with those feelings after researching or inquiring about a service that is geared toward women with families or women who have been victims of domestic violence. Because I've always fallen short under the law, I can't help but always feel that I will fall short under their definitions. Negative thoughts aside, I eagerly redialed her number.

She told me that we had not been chosen to move forward with their program, however that didn't mean that we hadn't been chosen. There was a mixture of excitement and rue in her voice, so not only was I anxious, but confused. Turns out, we've been accepted into another program, which will be a stepping stone to being accepted into their program. For the homeless, a prerequisite for getting into many housing programs is that you've been referred by a shelter or other shelter-esk facility. Since we've had no prolonged shelter stays, I frequently find myself explaining up and down how the lack of a shelter stay still classifies us as homeless and in need of services from whatever housing agency I am seeking. In a nutshell, this organization has cleverly made arrangements with their sister organization, a shelter, one that I am assuming will not be anxiety inducing so that we can be referred back to them at a later date.

Tomorrow, to the facility we will go, where beds and privacy await us. Unlike the initial program that I applied to, this facility will be free of charge, allowing me to save and prepare for the phases ahead. Let the games begin!

9 comments:

  1. Well that is good news. I wish you luck!

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  2. This is good news. I hope this is a place where you can have peace and privacy until it's time to take the next step. Wishing you all the best!

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  3. Thanks Katie. I think it will be. I'll be sure to write my thoughts on the set up once we've moved in.

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  4. Great Barbara, there are wonderful things on the horizon. I think it's time for you to enter a doctoral program anywhere in the country.

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  5. Maybe in another year Brooke. Baby steps.

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  6. Well, yay! I'm so excited for you both. This is great news!

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  7. I've been lurking here for a bit but this is my first time posting a comment. Just wanted to say i'm happy for you! You and your adorable daughter deserve this good news.

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  8. Thank you Bubu Licious! Feel free to hang out any time. I appreciate your words.

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